My Dad - hates Phil Collins, likes me being sad about sports

So I was pretty pumped up yesterday with the Pies in the Sky winning, and rather poetically winning in the middle of my birthday party, with a lot of people hanging around waiting for us to fall over. I love the sheer inner bogan Collingwood bring out in me, and certainly I enjoyed telling the rest of the party to go and get stuffed. I think my obsession with Paul Medhurst is getting a little over the top though, need to tone that down. I think I should probably have a poster of Gabrielle Cilmi instead of one of our Paul - mind you, could young Gabby have hit Racer on the chest lace out? Anyway, I'm now massively over the Hobart pub scene - someone told me that at Customs, they threw out a bloke with MS, and wouldn't back down, because they thought he was drunk. It's so hard to get in anywhere these days, I'm not surprised people don't go out anymore. I've also been looking to get rid of a lot of my junk - I have a lot of absolute junk to get rid of, and that's what I was thinking off on the drunken taxi ride home. How I could get rid of most of my old Stereolab CDs and wrestling DVDs. That's not just physical junk as well - mentally, I could do with clearing out a lot of information and replacing it with more intellectual fare. I've never seen any of the Godfather films, but I know the names of all the members of Blue. At least now, I don't know the rap from "All Rise" (although I just realised I know the Lil Kim rap from Lady Marmalade, so there's a lot of work to do clearing brain space - whatever happened to Mya by the way?)...er, not that I ever did. The taxi driver last night, he at least wasn't on his mobile selling real estate to his brother back in India, like the one I had in the other week, or pumping out Sundanese rap music through some surely not council approved self installed speakers and trying to sell me one of the CDs. A little like Beyonce, Kelly and the other one, I'm pretty much a survivor, although not of a failed relationship, but of actually getting into Hobart taxis...you'd think my momma taught be better than that (although this I suppose does count as dissing ya on the Internet...hmmm...Destinys Child really were a morally complex band - a lot more complex than Solange).

Anyway, today was Fathers day, at which point I should wax lyrical about my Dad with Hallmark approved poetry. I bought him a Dixie Chicks doco for the day, and he I think was quite happy with that. Our relationship is kind of good - there's certainly been nothing I could pad out a "my horrific childhood" memoir with, he's hardly Bing Crosby (apart from the day I got a spike, and the day I went out in my white T-shirt with the brown shoulders that had a BMX bike rider and the word GO! on it in pink sparkly letters) but I think sometimes he gets a bit annoyed I'm not doing more with my life, or that we don't talk about big issues. I think this is his fault - we talk mostly about sport, and I'm convinced that he solely had me to laugh at my miserable sports teams. One day, my soccer team, Liverpool were playing his, Manchester United. I had been out playing with my friend - a red headed kid that lived round the corner from me, who I mostly remember because in a magazine one day there was a cartoon squirrel that said "Hi! I'm a cheeky squirrel! Want to see me nuts!" and he thought this was hysterical and mentioned it every day for two years - so I didn't know the score or see the game. When I came in from playing, he had the video tape of the game, and he said something like "Here, you won 1-0, here's your winner" and sure enough, when he pushed play, Liverpool scored with ten minutes to go, and I thought, well, that's good - he didn't though tell me that Manchester United then scored three goals in the last 10 minutes, to win 3-1, and he thought this was hilarious, to see my face crumple in disappointment. I got him back on ANZAC day 2002, when he had to sit in the rain and watch the Pies In The Sky roll all over his Bombers - for some reason, he didn't seem keen to give Eddie a high five when the pres was running around with the cup. Anyway, he was utterly miserable, and on the tram on the way home, a small Asian girl offered him her seat, because he looked so old and pathetic...it was fantastic. Well, he started it. He's a good bloke actually, very old school left wing labour in his politics - he never got over Kinnock losing in 92, and has a very low opinion of students at his school that try and get out of class by faking a learning disability, and an ever lower opinion of Phil Collins. Actually, that last bit is why I like him the most...

He fell out with his own Dad in 1982, in a fight over a christening shawl. Of course, what you learn is that it's never just about a christening shawl, that's just the final straw. Like Rolf Harris, he can't listen all the way through "The Living Years" by Mike and the Mechanics without bursting into tears. I obviously thus don't remember my Grandad - I'd have quite like a pop, and not one like the old man who told us at the party that the trouble with young people today was that they didn't go ferreting. The closest I ever came to having a Grandad like figure was the man at the Ladbrokes in Kilmarnock in Scotland (boy, is that a glamorous scene, full of shifty looking blokes who are hoping a horse whipped by a jockey can stop them having to go home and face an angry wife with a rolling pin) who caught my next door neighbour stealing pencils out of the joint. My next door neighbour wasn't a bad kid, but he could be a handful - one time we went to a soccer game and a woman in the crowd got knocked out by the ball flying into the crowd, it hit her right in the eye after it bounced off a support beam. Everyone was quite concerned by this, except my friend who in a silent 6000 crowd was heard to yell "Haw, that was fucking hilarious! Didyeseethat! What a stoater!" - anyway, he sat us both down with paternal kindness (steady) and talked about life with us both, and the journey it could take us - we could keep stealing pencils and hanging out in seedy bookmakers (he didn't know Dad was actually outside wondering where the hell we were) and we would end up like Kerry Katona, or we could behave ourselves and he'd let us have a lollipo...OK, at the time, I was pretty creeped out by the guy, but now recognise he was genuinely nice, and trying to help. At the time, I was all indignant and West of Scotland "Haw whits yer game, I never stole any pencils Mister!" and stormed out in a mood but now, I think he had an effect on my life with his wisdom, and I certainly didn't end up in Atomic Kitten and the pencil thief has gone on to lead a productive life and owns a dune buggy. If only he'd have been my Grandad, I could have taken more old man wisdom...although I'd still have stayed away from his offer to have a lollipop.

Anyway, back to my own Dad - we have a bit of a Fathers Day tradition, where we go to McDonalds together for breakfast. We discuss topics like sport, life in general, and his hatred of elderly white gentlemen discovering rap music in Chris Rock comedies. This one year, we did it because we always did it, but we weren't talking or something, it was a bit of a token effort, and it was one of a million meaningless little days that at the end of your life you won't remember. We pulled into the Kingston carpark, there was roughly two other cars in the car park, and we got out and sort of had a little chat about nothing, and went inside, past a couple of other father sons talking about nothing in particular, and a goth girl reading about Jim Bacon in the Mercury. My dad was after his usual, a Sausage and Egg McMuffin without cheese, and we were patiently waiting for it when this bloke in a flannel shirt, with a little girl no bigger than Elmo clinging onto his torn jeans, started hooking into the guy behind the counter, calling him all kinds of names, because his coffee didn't come when he asked. The little girl already looked really weary of having this bloke for a dad, and as his mullet billowed in the store air conditioned breeze, he launched into a tirade about the town of Kingston and why did he ever move here and why was everyone so against him and making life difficult. The little girl started to wander into the car park and was only stopped from her attempt at self abandonment by a McDonalds employee who shoved her reluctantly in her Dads direction. My Dad has looked up from the paper, and started laughing. He shook his little bearded head, smiled, and said "Well son, I might be many things, auld, slow...but you'll always know, yer Daddys no a cunt like that guy...", and he's right, he certainly wasn't. And he certainly isn't.

I wish Hallmark could put that sentiment on a card you know...

Three short stories about the place where the clown hates you

So I spent most of today in a training course - it wasn't the most riveting way to spend my time, so I amused myself by trying to crowbar outrageously poor customer service stories and claim them as my own (that time the woman chased the guy out of the furniture store with a bat? That was really at B&E! Hilarious!) and also try and get the film Weekend at Bernies mentioned as many times as possible. I hate the little Q&A bits you have to do at the start of training days, so I try and Ricky Gervais them (they asked Ricky Gervais once who he'd like to be stuck in a lift with and he said his mate Rick, he's got a toolbox). Doesn't always work, but the day did once again comprehensively the difference between Tasmania and Scotland - in Tasmania, there is no personal fact that goes unshared. In Scotland, people would rather die (or live in Beith...that one kills in Ayrshire) than reveal there has ever been anything medically wrong with them, but in Tasmania, it's illness-a-go-go. Our trainer was really building up a head of steam to tell us all about her stint in hospital last year, to the point I thought she was going to go and get the X-rays out, but she was thankfully stopped by the delivery of sandwiches. I sent the rest of the day pottering around town listening to Santogold (oooh, get you, you name dropper) on my IPOD and pondering exactly what it is that the woman guarding the door at JBHIFI actually smells like. I say it's chips, really salty chips, but my friend swears it's a charming combination of perspiration and Aquolina Pink Sugar. I swear if you put her scent on a game show, no one would work it out. I find JBHIFI really interesting because they've got everyone in the door with really cheap prices, and then put them up 600% and people still love the place. I still can't work out why no matter where I stand in that shop, instantly at least three people have to stand immediately behind me and look at exactly the same product. I think I'm becoming influential or something, I've never seen so many people so fascinated by the second series of Weeds...more people gathered behind me to look at that spot of the store than watched it when it was on Channel 9...

Anyway, I was waiting for a lift home, and I was idly reading something about the woman vice president who just reminds me of Karen from Will and Grace, when these two out of towners sort of jogambled up to me, mid LES Artistes, and asked me where the local McDonalds was. I'm a huge believer in local pride, so I was glad to tell them, nay, escort them to...oh who am I kidding, I mumbled in a really weird accent "It'sfruther" and pointed in the direction of the Cat and Fiddle (does that clock still work? Tourists are always in for an 11am treat once the dish runs away with the...no, I won't spoil for you). Thanked for my efforts, I proceeded on my way, but by the time I myself was wandering through Centrepoint, I saw the same couple wandering through, disappointed, and clearly without McDonalds. This sort of annoyed me, as they were discussing that the McDonalds (being a simple stand of burger dispensing, not a fancy pants 1980s decor retro store) wasn't good enough for them - since when has McDonalds needed to be good enough for anyone? Who applies standards to McDonalds? What did you expect, silver service? Monkey butlers? Sure, the one in the Cat and Fiddle is the home of spectularly slack jawed yokels on both sides of the counter who buy their cupcakes with 2c pieces, but give me a break, a pickle is a pickle, and it's not like there's a lot of quality control in the thickshake (although the Wendys that used be in the Cat and Fiddle was way worse, since once the old black haired woman that worked there dropped two of my dollar coins right into the milk and said "No worries, I'll fish em out later!). I wanted to chase them for their out of town cheek. Besides, it was at the Cat and Fiddle McDonalds stand that I heard the single greatest bogan argument I've ever heard. It was two guys who had just come from that games place, one of them had a "Free Hugs" T-shirt on and the other one had glasses the size of a small radiator and were going to get a coke, when they nearly started punching lumps out of each other. One of them was saying "NerfuckingNoiseworks" and one of them was shouting "NERFUCKINGANGRYANDERSON!" - they ended up sort of rolling around on the ground, arguing about how was better, Noiseworks, the singers of Hot Chilli Woman, or Angry Anderson, the singer of Suddenly, until a blue shirted and bewildered security guard half arsedly broke up the fight with the maximum of apathy and the minimum of smackdown. I guess he preferred the Coral Snakes...

Thinking about McDonalds though always takes me back to Manchester - ah, Manchester, the lukewarm hotdogs, the obsession with naming dishes on menus after Smiths songs, the authentic Australian pubs packed with New Zealanders, the beautiful but incredibly arrogant girls who serve you scrambled eggs - and 2005. Ah, I didn't have no Internet...no, that was 1989. I was staying at this fancy hotel, and when I would go into the lobby, Australian cricket coach John Buchanan was always there, sitting entirely on his own reading Time Magazine (I later told people it was Penthouse). I couldn't sleep though this one night because I had a cramp in my leg, and I went for a no doubt incredibly dodgy stroll around late night Manchester, before stumbling on a McDonalds. As I got inside, through the plexi-glass doors that took about ten minutes to open, with inevitably The Smiths blaring into the night air through a crackling messed up PA system, a man had just purchased 12 large cokes, and had them sitting on a plastic tray. He then took one of the large cokes, took a tiny sip out of it, and absolutely pegged it at the poor little Chinese guy who had sold it to him. He took a full baseball pitch swing to get the maximum power behind it, and it thudded off the specials menu with a satisfying splat. To the sound of "How Soon Is Now" (sadly not the TATU cover) he proceeded quite unencumbered to throw the remaining 11 Cokes to various parts of the restaurant. Some at the Somalian cleaner, some at the door (hey, watch it buddy, I'm wearing a Superdry original!) and some of course at our small Chinese friend. After the twelth coke (I so wish it wasn't in June, I had the twelth coke of Christmas line ready to go) was successfully pegged, he simply turned on his heels and walked out into the freezing Manchester air, leaving just me, a surprisingly attractive single Mum, and the collection of minimum wage immigrant staff to look at the battlefield he had left behind as if we were watching the end of Platoon. At which point the Somalian mop wielder has pushed past me, nudged me in the ribs and gone "Guess he wasn't a Smiths fan" - and, to be honest, it's still the best example of Somali humour I've heard...

Of course, none of this compares to the day McDonalds opened in Burnie. I might have loved this record and not been able to see straight anymore, but even when I couldn't shut my Playboy mouth, I always knew that McDonalds in Burnie would provide me somewhere to go and eat and drunkenly muck about on the slide when I was at my alcohol afflicted worst. By the time I left Burnie, we all took McDonalds for granted. However, when it opened, every single day the school bus would go from Penguin to Burnie, we would pass the building site on which, er, McDonalds was being built (good work genius, what did you think happens on a building site?). There was this girl on the bus, and I made her cry one day because she said I was ugly and would never get a pash (in hindsight I think this was her way of flirting but...) but she looked like an apprentice witch with a little sharp twinkly nose, and I pointed this out to her, and I'm not responsible for the tears that followed in my book. We had got past that though by the time McDonalds was being built, and as the bus chugged past it with it's immaculate Kergers Coaches paint job shimmering in the sun, she stared out the window and audibly gasped at the magnificent arches and said "Wow...what do you think they sell in there!" - well, burgers for one I thought, but because I came from a town in Scotland that already had a McDonalds (OK, it had a Wimpey, and you don't need to the full explanation of that, just imagine what a British McDonalds would be like though) I was instantly the expert who was meant to tell these awe struck kids what it was like. All I wanted to do was suck my Push Pop (matron) but when it's time to step up, it's time to step up. "Well," I said, putting the phallic strawberry sweet to one side, "you might have heard of the Big Mac, but in my book, the crispy fried salmon in tartare sauce with the side order of croutons and the coq au vin is where it's really at" - OK, so a lazy comment poking fun at the McDonalds menu is probably not the best joke in the world, and it wouldn't make sense in 2008, since McDonalds is now all fancy pants and you could probably get McSalmon, but I was quite amused with myself for upping expectations, the little cultural jammer that I was, especially considering twinklenose believed me. About three weeks later, Elizabeth Montgomery comes up to me and she's pretty pissed off. "You lied to me!" she said, tapping her Clarks shoes on the puddle on the ground, sending little hissy fit jets of water up into the air. "It wasn't salmon they served at McDonalds! It was trout!" - I still don't know if this was a joke, or my own joke was actually quite precient, or if she was trying out some surrealist material, but it's probably the only time in my life I've ever been accused of a fish based inaccuracy...

Still, the green thickshakes they make on St Patricks day are fantastic...